Carl L.

Commented on Had to delete Fortnite from my 9yo's tablet and I'm bracing for impact

You're not a terrible parent. He's 9 and just lost dopamine-slot-machine access lol. The crying sucks but it passes. My 10yo did the same with Fortnit...

Commented on Just navigated my first doctor visit and actually knew what was happening

This moment is bigger than it sounds. You went from "my wife handles this" to "I understand what's happening with my kid." That's a fundamental shift ...

Commented on Road trip with 6yo across CA - apps/entertainment recommendations?

SF to San Diego in 10 hours is doable but breaking it into two days is smart. Where are you stopping overnight? Kid-friendly hotel with a pool makes a...

Commented on Best budget-friendly weekend activities in Portland metro?

Forest Park is amazing and totally free - miles of trails right in the city. My kids are similar ages and we do the Wildwood Trail loop pretty regular...

Commented on Quick question - clothing allowance with 50/50?

This is tricky because technically they're her purchases BUT they're for your kid to wear at both homes. Does she expect you to replace stuff that get...

Commented on Anyone else's kid getting scammed?

Set up Family Link or whatever Apple's version is and lock down in-app purchases. But also talk to him about it - not as punishment but as explanation...

Commented on My 8yo asked me to help her practice for her soccer tournament

The 'she asked' part is everything. Keep showing up for those driveway sessions. That's the stuff she'll remember.

Commented on Fitbit + Google Home = managing my stress (barely)

Okay I'm actually going to try the Google Home thing. Do you have it set to a specific volume or did you mess with the tone? Want it noticeable but no...

Commented on My daughter asked why mom's house looks happier than mine

Ouch is right. But also 10yo describing a room as "happier" is her way of saying 'this feels like someone invested in my space.' Not a money problem, ...

Commented on Just survived a 5-hour car ride with two kids under 10

Wait you rented a NEW release for the car? That's a pro move. Like not something they've already seen 50 times.