Finally got some time to myself last night after kids went to bed and jumped on for a few hours. Used to game all the time but now it's like once a month if I'm lucky. Started a new playthrough of Red Dead 2 and forgot how immersive that game is. Thinking about setting up a weekly gaming night with ...
We used to be really involved at our church but life got busy, then we just kept skipping and skipping. This past month we've been back every Sunday and I forgot how much we need this. My kids are asking questions about God and wanting to know more. Yesterday my 5 year old asked me if Jesus loves he...
Had the whole Saturday planned to take the kids fishing at the lake. Woke up to thunderstorms so we had to bail. Ended up building a blanket fort in the living room instead and honestly they had a blast. Gonna reschedule for next month. Anyone else have a go to backup plan when outdoor stuff gets ca...
Need prayers for my oldest. He's been getting bullied at school and his grades are dropping because of it. We've been praying with him every night and talking to his teacher, but I feel like I'm not doing enough as a dad. Trying to model strength and faith but inside I'm worried sick. Would apprecia...
I know the world is different now and my kids need to learn tech, but I'm struggling with how much is too much. My wife and I are trying to be intentional about it but my kids see their friends gaming for hours and we feel like we're being too strict. Anyone else navigate this? Trying to teach them ...
We got home yesterday with our daughter and I'm terrified to sleep. Every time I close my eyes I wake up in a panic thinking something's wrong. She's sleeping fine but I can't shut my brain off. Is this normal? How long does this last? I feel like I'm going insane. My wife keeps telling me to rest b...
Ripped out old tile and fixtures two months ago thinking it would be a quick weekend job. Found mold behind the walls, had to order new drywall, became a whole thing. Weekends for like 8 weeks straight. But last weekend we finally grouted the new tile and it actually looks professional. The kids pic...
So I used to be that guy who'd sit around all evening after work just scrolling and drinking beer. No exercise, no hobbies, just existing. Then my kid asked me why I couldn't play soccer with him in the yard without getting winded. That hit different. Started going to the gym 3 months ago and honest...
Took 4 weekends but we finally got it done. Used 2x8 pressure treated boards, bolted everything into this massive oak in our backyard. My 7 year old helped me drill holes even though he was nervous. Now he won't stop talking about it. We have a little ladder and a rope and it's legitimately cool. Be...
She's 8 and started asking questions. Instead of lying more we sat down and had the real talk. She said 'so you've been Santa this whole time?' and I said yes. Then she asked if she could help be Santa for her little brother next year. Now we're planning this whole thing together. Feels like we leve...
He's asking and some of his friends have them. Wife thinks he's too young, I'm torn. I get that he might need it for emergencies or connecting with family but I'm worried about everything else. Gaming, YouTube rabbit holes, social media garbage. What age did you guys give your kids phones? Any regre...
Hit the lake before work and pulled in three solid bass. Not trophy size but they were fun to fight. Water was perfect temperature and barely any other fishermen out there. Weekday mornings are the way to go if you want to avoid crowds.
Got my offset smoker ready to go for the big game day. Waking up at 5am to get the ribs on. I've been experimenting with a dry rub recipe all month and I think I finally nailed it. Might invite some neighbors over if they turn out good. Anyone else wake up early for their smoker or am I just crazy?
Finally mounted the big TV on the wall and ran all the cables through the studs. Looks so much cleaner now. Added some LED strips behind the TV too which actually looks pretty cool in the dark. This is my happy place now.
Just moved into a 2 bedroom apartment after the separation. Kids are 8 and 11. They have to share a room on my weeks and honestly it's tight. Ex keeps making comments about how they're 'cramped' at my place and suggesting I need a bigger place. I'm doing my best financially right now but it stings. ...