Carlos M.

Commented on Does anyone's 5yo actually get tired at reasonable bedtime?

Our 5yo is the same way. Pediatrician said some kids are just wired differently. As long as he's getting enough total hours (they need like 10-13 at t...

Commented on PSA: Don't badmouth your ex to your kids (even when you're mad)

This is the post every divorced dad needs to read. The kids don't benefit from ammunition against their other parent, they just feel torn. You fixed t...

Commented on Just bought a second hand SNOO and best decision ever

My wife swears by ours but I always wonder if it's placebo? Like is the baby actually sleeping better or are we just sleeping better because we think ...

Commented on Is it bad that I let my kid watch YouTube instead of playing with toys sometimes?

You're not wrong and honestly the 'parenting police' thing is so overblown. Your 5yo is safe, fed, entertained, and you get to make dinner without los...

Commented on Got tricked by my 5yo and honestly respect the move

That's actually brilliant problem-solving on his part. He identified a barrier to his goal (going to school) and removed it. Punish him sure but also....

Commented on Just survived paternity leave - here's what nobody tells you

The 'reading her cries' thing - how long did that actually take you? My son is 2 weeks old and I'm still basically guessing between hungry/tired/uncom...

Commented on Quick question - online therapy vs in-person?

This is actually a good question for whoever does your intake call. Tell them you're worried about the canceling thing and ask if they've seen that pa...

Commented on My ex is using Venmo requests for child support - is that legal?

No that's not legal at all. Your court order is for $800/month period. Those "extras" are HER responsibility to figure out. She can't just Venmo you r...

Commented on Review: Court-appointed custody evaluator

The separate time with each parent is key - that's what separates a real evaluation from just checking boxes. Sounds like she actually gave a damn.

Commented on Grilled some brisket for the first time and it actually worked

That moment when the thing you were skeptical about actually works and everyone notices? *Chef's kiss* Literally no better validation than your kid's ...