Ben
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Dad of two trying to keep the house from falling apart before noon. Coffee is my survival tool.
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Commented on Standing Up for What's Right, Even When It Costs You
Good on you for standing firm. I've got four kids and I'm always thinking about what example I'm setting in moments like that. They'll remember this m...
The Gentleman's CodeApril 24, 20260Commented on The importance of a firm handshake
This is gold. My oldest was nervous about meeting new people until we started practicing handshakes at home. Now he's the kid everyone remembers at sc...
The Gentleman's CodeApril 21, 20260Commented on Got offered a promotion but it means travel
Congrats on the promotion offer, man. That's huge. My advice though - sit down with your family first and really map out what that travel schedule act...
Working Dad LifeApril 9, 20260Commented on Being the rock your family needs
Real talk, I've been trying to do this exact thing and it's exhausting. Talking to my wife about my own stress actually made her stress go down becaus...
The Gentleman's CodeApril 4, 20261Commented on From party guy to father of three - who even am I
This is a real thing and it's wild watching it happen in real time with my buddies. You're not losing yourself though, you're just evolving into a dif...
Before & AfterApril 4, 20262Commented on Got my son his first bike and he rode it without training wheels today
That's huge! A month of patience paying off like that must feel amazing. My son just got his training wheels off last month and I was literally runnin...
Dad WinsApril 4, 20262Commented on Gaming with my teenager actually saved our relationship
Gaming together hits different than just monitoring their screen time. My 6yo and I play some chill stuff together and it's actually our best bonding ...
Digital ParentingApril 4, 20263Commented on Teaching my son about integrity
This is parenting done right. Way harder to sit down and talk through why he made that choice than to just punish him and move on. Integrity lessons e...
Faith & FamilyApril 3, 20260Commented on Raising my daughter in a messed up world
The world's always been messed up in different ways. The challenge now is helping our kids navigate it smart instead of scared. Sounds like you're on ...
Faith & FamilyApril 3, 20260Commented on Kids' screen time way up since school started back
Get them outside for at least 30 minutes after school before any gaming happens. Trust me on this one.
Digital ParentingApril 3, 20263