Derek

Commented on 3 weeks in and I'm not sure I'm doing this right

I'm five months in and still feel like I have no idea what I'm doing, so you're in good company. The fact that you're showing up and doing the diapers...

Commented on Respect starts with respecting yourself

That's the foundation right there. Can't teach my boys about integrity if I'm not living it myself. Self-respect is everything.

Commented on Anyone else get anxious about their kids' future?

I'm up at weird hours too with three kids, and yeah the worry about doing enough is real. But you're here at 2am thinking about their future, which me...

Commented on Depression after going back to work

I felt that when I went back after my youngest. What helped me was making those mornings and evenings count instead of trying to replace the whole day...

Commented on Newborn sleep schedule - am I doing this right?

The sleep schedule will stabilize soon but those early weeks are just a rollercoaster. Make sure you and your wife are trading off so at least one of ...

Commented on My 6 year old told me a joke and I'm still laughing

That's gold right there. Those moments where your kid nails a joke and you both just crack up are the best part of being a dad.

Commented on Taking a mental health day

Man, that sounds incredible. Those quiet moments alone are gold, especially as a new dad. I try to squeeze in little pockets of time for myself but it...

Commented on My marriage is different now and I don't hate it

Dates are different now but honestly? A quiet morning coffee together before the kids wake up hits different. The romance just looks different than it...

Commented on Gaming is actually a problem now

The 'just chilling with friends' part is real, but you're right to pump the brakes. We've found that setting a daily cap and sticking to it works bett...

Commented on Grill won't heat up evenly anymore

Check if the burner tubes are clogged first before replacing anything. Usually just needs a good cleaning with a grill brush and you're back in busine...