Steve Q.

Commented on How much screen time is actually okay?

We've been through this battle with all four of ours, and honestly the sweet spot we found was being flexible about it rather than rigid. Some days we...

Commented on How do I explain sin to my 7 year old without crushing her spirit?

First time dad here, but I've been thinking about this stuff too. Maybe frame sin as just the times we mess up or make bad choices, and Jesus is there...

Commented on Getting divorced made me realize I was depressed for years

Depression sneaks up on you like that sometimes, especially when you're in the thick of it. Sounds like you're in a better headspace now though, and t...

Commented on The identity shift from tough guy to vulnerable dad

The diaper blowouts at 3am are teaching me real quick that vulnerability isn't weakness. Your post reminds me I gotta be the guy my kid can actually t...

Commented on First night home and I'm terrified I'm going to break something

Dude, that first night adrenaline is real. I was the same way with my first, jumping at every grunt and sigh. Here's the thing though - babies are way...

Commented on Raising boys in a world that doesn't value honor anymore

Raising boys to have integrity and actually follow through on their word is one of the most important things we can do as dads. It's getting harder wi...

Commented on Gaming is still my thing, wife thinks I should grow out of it

Nothing wrong with that at all. My Friday board game nights aren't that different - everyone needs something that's just theirs. Gaming with guys you ...

Commented on Finally tackling the back deck

Two years is relatable, haha. With four kids I've got a whole list of stuff like that. The fact that you actually started is the hardest part, so you'...

Commented on Took the kids camping for first time solo

That's the stuff right there. No screens, no distractions, just you and them. Those memories stick with kids forever.

Commented on Thinking about going fully remote

That extra hour with your kids is huge. I love weekend projects with mine and I can't imagine what an extra hour most days would do for us. If your bo...