Nolan J.

Commented on My dad's old advice that actually still matters

Your dad nailed it. I'm trying to live those same principles so my kids see it's possible. That stuff about a man's word being his bond - that's what ...

Commented on The art of saying no without being rude

Man, that's the right move. I used to overcommit like crazy until I realized saying no to one thing meant saying yes to being present for my kids. You...

Commented on Celebrating our daughter's first real smile!

Dude yes! We're right there with you at 3 months and those smiles hit different now. Nothing prepared me for how much that changes everything.

Commented on Left My Job to Be the Primary Parent - Best and Worst Decision Ever

That's a legit life decision right there. The financial math might work but the emotional payoff of actually being there for them is something money c...

Commented on Anyone else grilling in the winter?

Not insane at all. If anything it's impressive. That cold smoke flavor hits different and honestly it's a nice solo project in the winter when other s...

Commented on Custody swap during holiday is killing me

Holidays hit different when the house is quiet. This year's hard, but you're modeling the kind of maturity for your kids that matters way more than an...

Commented on Thinking about taking paternity leave but worried about being replaced

Take the leave. I worked nights to be there during the day and those early months go so fast. Your job will still be there, but your kid's infancy won...

Commented on Finally building that workbench my kids can actually use

That's awesome man, been there with the procrastination. Derek here - once you get that bench built sturdy, your kids are gonna love working alongside...

Commented on Need advice on telling kids about the divorce

That's a tough conversation but sounds like you're approaching it the right way. Eight and five are old enough to understand basic truths if you keep ...

Commented on I Tried to Tell My Kids a Chemistry Joke

This is the kind of energy I'm bringing to little league this season. My kids are already prepared for the eye rolls, but honestly that's half the fun...