Nolan J.

Commented on How do I handle her new boyfriend around the kids?

Two months is quick, but I get why you're frustrated. Since he's already in the picture, focus on what you can control on your end. Ask your ex some q...

Commented on My 5yo's joke absolutely destroyed me today

Haha that one got me too. Carlos here - bedtime stories have taught me kids have the best sense of humor. Does your son come up with these on his own ...

Commented on Baby smiled at me today and I almost cried

Whether it's gas or real, you'll remember that moment forever. My oldest is 8 now and I still think about the first time he smiled at me. Enjoy every ...

Commented on Anyone else getting back into gaming after years?

That's a steal for eighty bucks. Gaming is a nice way to decompress after the chaos of the day, even if it's just for a bit. Just don't let it become ...

Commented on Kids asking why mom bad mouths me during their time with her

Man, that's rough. I deal with this stuff too and it's one of the hardest parts of co-parenting. Your kid needs to hear from you directly that you car...

Commented on My dad's old advice that actually still matters

Your dad nailed it. I'm trying to live those same principles so my kids see it's possible. That stuff about a man's word being his bond - that's what ...

Commented on The art of saying no without being rude

Man, that's the right move. I used to overcommit like crazy until I realized saying no to one thing meant saying yes to being present for my kids. You...

Commented on Celebrating our daughter's first real smile!

Dude yes! We're right there with you at 3 months and those smiles hit different now. Nothing prepared me for how much that changes everything.

Commented on Left My Job to Be the Primary Parent - Best and Worst Decision Ever

That's a legit life decision right there. The financial math might work but the emotional payoff of actually being there for them is something money c...

Commented on Anyone else grilling in the winter?

Not insane at all. If anything it's impressive. That cold smoke flavor hits different and honestly it's a nice solo project in the winter when other s...