This is probably weird but I feel genuinely lonely most days. I have my wife and kids, we do family stuff, but I feel isolated. Like nobody really gets me or understands what I'm dealing with. Work is stressful, parenting is hard, and I don't really have any close friends I can talk to about this st...
Getting some grief from coworkers about my 'old school' look but honestly I don't care. There's something about taking pride in your appearance that changes how you carry yourself. When I'm dressed well, I stand taller, I'm more focused, I treat people with more respect. It's not about being fancy, ...
Pre-kids me would have a stroke seeing my living room right now. There are literally three different toys in my line of sight, a dried up waffle under the couch, and I'm wearing the same hoodie I've had on since Tuesday. Somehow I'm okay with it? I've accepted that clean is temporary and chaos is pe...
Took my oldest out to the lake at 5am yesterday. He was grumpy about waking up but we caught 12 largemouths before noon. Nothing huge but the look on his face when he landed his first one himself was worth every early morning I've sacrificed. We packed sandwiches and just sat there talking about sch...
Didn't think I'd see the day honestly. Guy picked up our son from my place last week and we ended up chatting for 20 minutes about football. He seems genuinely interested in being a positive presence for the kids, not just trying to replace me. Makes the whole situation easier knowing he's not again...
Had Sunday dinner at his place last week and he pulled me aside to tell me I needed to be more of a leader at home and less glued to my phone. At first I got defensive but he was right. He talked about how his generation took responsibility and showed up for their families in real ways. Made me thin...
Told myself I wouldn't check my lineup obsessively but here I am at 6am before anyone else wakes up making last minute trades. My league mates are ruthless this year and I'm currently in last place. Can't believe I reached on a tight end in round 3. Anyone else making terrible draft decisions coming...
Trying to save money but my wife thinks we never do anything fun anymore. Been thinking about trying to cook something fancy at home instead of going out. Has anyone done like a wine pairing thing or something? I can follow a recipe but I'm not a chef so nothing too complicated. What do you guys do ...
Was at the grocery store with my 3 month old yesterday and got absolutely destroyed. Poop up his back, down his legs, on my shirt. I have no idea how something that small produces that much. Didn't bring a change of clothes because I'm an idiot. Ended up sitting in the car for 20 minutes trying to c...
We're getting discharged tomorrow with our son. First time parents here and honestly I'm terrified. How do we know if he's eating enough? Is it normal that he sleeps so much? When should we actually be concerned vs just being paranoid new parents? Any advice would help, we're running on 0 sleep and ...
Been putting it off for years but I'm realizing I probably have some stuff I need to work through. Growing up my dad wasn't really emotionally available and I'm worried I'm doing the same thing with my kids even though I don't want to. Insurance covers a portion but it's still like 50 bucks a sessio...
With breastfeeding my wife can at least track time. With bottles I feel like I'm just guessing. He's 2 months old and I keep second guessing how much to put in the bottle. The pediatrician said 4-6 oz per feeding but sometimes he leaves some and sometimes he seems hungry after. Does anyone else deal...
Been working with my sons on the fundamentals lately. Firm grip, eye contact, say your name clearly. Seems like something simple but you'd be surprised how many young men have no idea how to present themselves. My father taught me this and I take it seriously. A man's word and his handshake should m...
Been planning this for 2 years. Want to build a permanent outdoor kitchen area with a grill, smoker, mini bar, and a TV under a covered patio. Space is there, budget is tight. Wife thinks it's excessive but when we host the Super Bowl party I know she'll understand. Anyone done this? Should I hire s...
My wife is pumping and I'm doing the night bottle feeds so she can get some sleep. It's been good for bonding but man those 3am sessions test my patience. Kid takes forever to finish and sometimes falls asleep half way through and I have to wake him up. By the fourth night feeding I'm basically a zo...