Started seeing a therapist about 6 weeks ago because my wife basically made me. I was on the fence about the whole thing but I gotta say it's been pretty good. We've been working on why I get so angry when things don't go to plan and I'm starting to notice patterns in my thinking. My marriage is alr...
Recently got back into actually drinking good coffee instead of whatever burnt stuff the office makes. Any recommendations? I got a cheap espresso machine but open to suggestions. Need something that'll actually keep me going through homework time with the kids.
My son asked if he could break his bedtime just this once to watch the game with me. I said no, we made an agreement. He's ten and getting frustrated. My wife gives me the look like maybe I should bend. But here's the thing - if I don't keep my word to my kids about small things, why would they trus...
I told him because good fathers are always outstanding in their field. He groaned so hard I thought he pulled something.
My son is 3 weeks old and I don't think I've slept more than 2 hours straight since he was born. Every time I close my eyes he cries. My wife and I are taking shifts but honestly the shifts feel pointless because I'm so anxious I can't actually sleep anyway. How long does this actually last? Everyon...
Want to build something cool for my kids this summer. Have some big oak trees in the backyard and figured a treehouse would be amazing. Never built anything like this before though. Do I need an architect? How much is this going to cost? Is this insanely dangerous or just normal dangerous? Anyone do...
Planning a camping trip this Labor Day weekend with my wife and 2 year old. We've camped before kids but obviously this is different. He's still in diapers, gets cranky when he's uncomfortable, and we don't want to be those people ruining everyone's camping experience. Should we rent a cabin instead...
I used to spend hours thinking about who I was and what I wanted to be. Pretty existential stuff. Then my first kid was born and suddenly the question became way simpler: am I doing enough for them? It's less abstract and honestly more grounding. I don't get to think about myself much anymore which ...
At least I know it's mine and not the baby's for once. Silver linings.
Took my nephew to the lake last weekend and we actually caught some decent sized catfish. Used to fish all the time before the kids but life got busy. Forgot how peaceful it is just sitting there waiting for a bite and talking about stuff. Already planning to make it a monthly thing. Any tips for ge...
This is driving me crazy. We agreed on Wednesdays at 6pm for pickup but she's been late like 5 times in the last month. Last week it was almost 8pm and I had plans. When I text her about it she just ignores me or says something came up. How do I handle this without making things worse? I don't want ...
Just upgraded to a new pellet smoker and I'm completely addicted. Been smoking brisket, ribs, chicken, you name it. My wife jokes that I spend more time out there than in the house. Honestly can't argue with her. The smell alone is worth it though. Any recommendations for good pellet brands?
My wife thinks I'm being ridiculous teaching my kids to stand when she comes into the living room or when guests arrive. I disagree. It's not about thinking women are fragile, it's about showing respect and teaching them that courtesy and small gestures matter. My daughter actually likes it and my s...
My 13 year old mouthed off to me in front of his coach yesterday. I felt that heat rising in my chest and could have gone off on him right there. Instead I took a breath and handled it calmly that night at home. Explained why that behavior is unacceptable and what it means to show respect to your el...
Seriously? For a pump? I looked at doing it myself but it seems like the kind of thing that could really go wrong if I mess it up. Anyone dealt with pool guys before? Are these quotes normal or am I getting ripped off?