The weekend ends and my anxiety just spikes thinking about the work week ahead. Meetings, deadlines, emails, trying to be present for the family when I get home but just being completely drained. By Sunday afternoon I'm already in a bad mood and snappy with everyone. Been like this for years and I'm...
Looking for something the whole family can enjoy. My oldest is 8 and my youngest is 5. They're both into Mario Kart but I want something new. Thinking maybe Mario Party or Minecraft? Open to suggestions. Just need something that won't drive me completely insane.
This is weird to admit but I feel really lonely a lot of the time. I've got my wife, the kids, and I see my family regularly but there's this empty feeling that I can't shake. I think it's because I don't really have close friendships anymore. Most of my buddies drifted after we had kids and I never...
Our son is 6 weeks old and I think I'm hallucinating from lack of sleep. My wife and I are trading off nights but neither of us is getting more than 4 hours total. Everyone keeps saying it gets better around 12 weeks but I honestly don't know if I can function that long. Is this normal? Are we doing...
My wife had the better job so it made sense for me to stay home with the kids. Best years with them but man, going back to work full time has shaken me up. I miss the daily routines, being present, not stressing about deadlines. At the same time I'm remembering what it felt like to be useful in a di...
My oldest son asked me to play basketball with him one day and I could barely make it down the driveway without being out of breath. That was the wake up call. Started small with walks, then running, got into fitness. Lost 85 pounds, way more energy, actually enjoy being outside with my kids now ins...
He's been asking for months. His friends all have it and he feels left out. I know TikTok gets a lot of hate but what's the actual danger? I'm thinking about letting him get it but with restrictions and checking in on his FYP sometimes. My wife thinks I'm insane. What's the general vibe from you guy...
Ever since my company let me go full remote I've actually been present for my kids. I get to eat lunch with them, hear about their day, pick them up from school. My work productivity is up and I'm less stressed. I know it won't last forever but I'm grateful for this season. Anyone else found that re...
Took my boys to Sunday service in their khakis and polos today. You could see the respect in how people greeted them. Too many kids running around in those athletic shorts and t shirts looking like they just rolled out of bed. A man takes pride in his appearance. I don't care what's trendy or comfor...
Got my buddy coming over, gonna throw some wings in the oven and crack open some cold ones. This is make or break for our playoff chances honestly. Anyone else think we got a shot this year or am I just being optimistic?
Started giving my kids an allowance and we've been talking about giving back to the church and helping people in need. My daughter actually asked if we could sponsor a child through that program. Seeing them want to give is honestly one of the coolest things as a dad. Makes me realize how much my ow...
First game of the season is this Sunday and I could not be more ready. Been talking about it with my oldest all week and hes pumped to watch with me. Gonna make a whole thing of it, wings, nachos, the works. This is my favorite time of year honestly.
Had a situation at the office where my boss wanted me to cut corners on a project to save money. I respectfully pushed back and explained why it wasnt the right move. Could have just gone along with it but I believe in doing things the right way. Takes more courage to speak up than to stay quiet som...
Pop gave me his old Seiko from 1982 yesterday. His father gave it to him when he turned 18. It's beat to hell and still keeps perfect time. He told me a man's got to wear his heritage and his story where people can see it. Now I gotta earn the right to pass it to my son someday. That's the weight we...
Had the whole weekend mapped out. Was gonna finally organize the garage, take the kids to the park, maybe catch up on yard work. Then my wife's mom called and needs help with some stuff at her house. Kids are fighting about whether they want to go or stay home. Looks like my Saturday is getting hija...