My oldest son asked me to play basketball with him one day and I could barely make it down the driveway without being out of breath. That was the wake up call. Started small with walks, then running, got into fitness. Lost 85 pounds, way more energy, actually enjoy being outside with my kids now ins...
He's been asking for months. His friends all have it and he feels left out. I know TikTok gets a lot of hate but what's the actual danger? I'm thinking about letting him get it but with restrictions and checking in on his FYP sometimes. My wife thinks I'm insane. What's the general vibe from you guy...
Ever since my company let me go full remote I've actually been present for my kids. I get to eat lunch with them, hear about their day, pick them up from school. My work productivity is up and I'm less stressed. I know it won't last forever but I'm grateful for this season. Anyone else found that re...
Took my boys to Sunday service in their khakis and polos today. You could see the respect in how people greeted them. Too many kids running around in those athletic shorts and t shirts looking like they just rolled out of bed. A man takes pride in his appearance. I don't care what's trendy or comfor...
Got my buddy coming over, gonna throw some wings in the oven and crack open some cold ones. This is make or break for our playoff chances honestly. Anyone else think we got a shot this year or am I just being optimistic?
Started giving my kids an allowance and we've been talking about giving back to the church and helping people in need. My daughter actually asked if we could sponsor a child through that program. Seeing them want to give is honestly one of the coolest things as a dad. Makes me realize how much my ow...
First game of the season is this Sunday and I could not be more ready. Been talking about it with my oldest all week and hes pumped to watch with me. Gonna make a whole thing of it, wings, nachos, the works. This is my favorite time of year honestly.
Had a situation at the office where my boss wanted me to cut corners on a project to save money. I respectfully pushed back and explained why it wasnt the right move. Could have just gone along with it but I believe in doing things the right way. Takes more courage to speak up than to stay quiet som...
Pop gave me his old Seiko from 1982 yesterday. His father gave it to him when he turned 18. It's beat to hell and still keeps perfect time. He told me a man's got to wear his heritage and his story where people can see it. Now I gotta earn the right to pass it to my son someday. That's the weight we...
Had the whole weekend mapped out. Was gonna finally organize the garage, take the kids to the park, maybe catch up on yard work. Then my wife's mom called and needs help with some stuff at her house. Kids are fighting about whether they want to go or stay home. Looks like my Saturday is getting hija...
Trying to start a real family devotional time but my kids get bored with the traditional Bible story stuff. I need recommendations for something that actually engages 6 and 10 year olds. Looking for devotionals that ask good questions and don't feel preachy. Also open to just reading Scripture and l...
Took my kids to Chipotle and my 4 year old comes out of the bathroom yelling DAD I POOPED SO LOUD. The entire restaurant heard. I just smiled and pretended I didn't know him. Pretty sure that's what being a dad is all about.
Spent like 6 weekends building a treehouse in our backyard with my boys (ages 7 and 10). Used mostly reclaimed wood and did it on a super tight budget. They helped with everything and the pride on their faces when we finished was insane. Took a ton of patience and we definitely messed up a few times...
Been dealing with depression for a few months and it's affecting everything. I don't have energy for the kids, I snap at them over little things, I just want to be left alone all the time. But they need their dad present and I feel like I'm letting them down. Started therapy last month but not sure ...
My son has been asking for more screen time and I've been letting him play Minecraft for about an hour and a half on school nights. He claims all his friends get unlimited time and honestly I have no idea if that's true. His teacher says his grades are fine and he's not falling asleep in class, but ...