Had a coworker make a snide comment about me leaving early on Fridays to coach my son's baseball team. Said something about a man's work coming first. I don't get it. My father was always working, always climbing, never showed up to a single game. Great provider. Terrible dad. I'm trying to be both ...
My kids think I'm ancient but I make them write thank you notes after birthdays and holidays. Handwritten. I don't care if it takes 20 minutes. That's how you teach gratitude and respect for other people's generosity. My son complained about it until he saw his grandmother's reaction getting his not...
Been working with my 8 year old on his handshake. Firm grip, eye contact, say your name clear. My old man taught me this way and I'm not letting it die with my generation. Took him to my work Christmas party last weekend and he shook hands with my boss like a young man should. Boss actually commente...
I have coworkers, friends, a family that loves me but I still feel incredibly alone most days. Like I'm going through the motions but nobody really sees me. Hard to explain. Been feeling this way for about 8 months and it's getting worse. Started journaling on my therapist's recommendation but some ...
I've noticed fewer and fewer guys wearing proper clothing these days. Took my family to church last Sunday and half the men were in basketball shorts. Started wearing a suit to the office again even though it's business casual. My grandfather always said you dress for who you want to become. Feeling...
So my Weber just completely gave up the ghost last weekend. Won't heat up past 300 degrees no matter what I do. I've got a big family cookout planned for July 4th and now I'm scrambling to figure out if I should repair it or just bite the bullet and get a new one. Has anyone dealt with this? Is it e...
Yesterday I found myself standing in the kitchen saying 'Please stop using the cat as a sled' with the same tired tone I probably use for everything else now. Then today my son asked me to help him find his shoes and I responded 'They're on your feet' because apparently that's where everything is. P...
My 4 year old woke up with a fever this morning and I immediately spiraled. Started thinking worst case scenarios, googled everything, felt my chest tighten. Wife had to basically talk me down for 20 minutes. Kid is fine, probably just a cold, but I feel exhausted now. Is this normal dad anxiety or ...
Took 4 weeks off after our second was born and those were some of the best days of my life. Now I'm back at the office and the guilt is crushing me. Missed my son's first real smile today and I wasn't there. Boss is already piling on projects like I didn't just become a dad. Remote work 2 days a wee...
Looking for some good beginner trails near the Denver area that I can do with my kids ages 5 and 8. Want something that takes like 2-3 hours max before everyone gets cranky. Also wondering what snacks actually keep kids happy on the trail because granola bars aren't cutting it. Any recommendations o...
My old man taught me this and I'm trying to pass it on. Firm grip, look them in the eye, clear your throat first so you're not nervous. It matters. I noticed when my kids shake hands with people they respect the ones who do it right. Little things like this add up to character. What else are you all...
Been going to a therapist for about 3 months now after my doctor recommended it. I was pretty skeptical at first, thought it was a waste of money. But talking to someone neutral about stuff I can't tell my wife or buddies has actually made a difference. The anxiety is still there but I feel like I h...
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My kids are 6, 9, and 11. They're always wanting to be on tablets or watching YouTube. We've set limits but I feel like I'm being too strict or maybe not strict enough? The 11 year old says all his friends have more screen time than him. Don't want to be that parent but also don't want them glued to...
Been working on this with my 12 year old. If he says he's going to do something, he does it. No excuses, no backing out. Told him a man's word is his bond and that's something people will respect him for his whole life. Started small, just keeping promises about chores and homework. Seems to be stic...