Grandparents got him one for his birthday thinking it would be educational. Now he's asking for it constantly and throwing fits when I try to set limits. I know iPads aren't evil but this is getting out of hand. He won't play with his toys anymore or go outside. I'm trying to figure out how much scr...
I've been smoking briskets for like 3 years now and I still haven't nailed it. Either it's too dry or the bark isn't right or the rub is off. My buddy brought his brisket to the neighborhood thing last Fourth of July and it was perfect. Now he's messing with me about it. Anyone have a go-to recipe o...
My wife and I keep arguing about this. She thinks an hour after school on weekdays is fine if homework is done, I think that's too much. We're not trying to raise him like a monk but I see what happens to his mood and attitude when he's been gaming too long. Looking for some actual data or just hone...
Been a Christian for 15 years but lately I feel like I'm not walking the walk as a dad. I tell my kids to pray and read their Bible but I'm scrolling Instagram before bed instead of doing my own devotions. My 8 year old asked me a question about God last week and I realized I didn't have a good answ...
I lost my temper at work and came home frustrated, snapped at the kids, then later had the audacity to tell them to have patience and kindness like Jesus teaches. My 9yo literally said, 'But you just yelled, Dad.' She was right. I apologized and explained that I mess up too and I'm still learning bu...
My 8yo overheard his mom joking about how bad my cooking is (it's deserved tbh) and he actually stood up and said, 'Dad's spaghetti is good though. Better than mac and cheese.' I literally almost teared up in the kitchen. That kid didn't have to say anything but he did. Felt like winning the world s...
This kid has been dominating me for 2 years straight. Every single race. Well not anymore. Got him on Rainbow Road and I'm still riding this high. He's already plotting revenge but today is mine. Small victory but it feels huge lol
Found my grandfather's old cast iron at an estate sale for $8. It's totally rust and crud all over it. I know you can restore these things but I'm wondering if it's actually worth spending hours on it or if I should just buy a new one. Anyone restore old cookware before? How long did it take you?
Used to work 70+ hour weeks at a corporate job that didn't even care. Missed my son's first soccer game, my daughter's school plays, everything. One day my 6yo asked if I lived at the office. That hit different. Started looking for remote work, took a pay cut, and yeah it was scary. Now I work 8-5, ...
My ex wants to move to California for her job. We have two kids, they're 8 and 10. I'm a big part of their lives, coach my son's baseball team, see them 4 days a week. The court hasn't ruled yet but everyone's saying unless I can prove it's not in the best interest of the children, I'm stuck. How do...
Making six figures, barely seeing my family, stressed 24/7. Had a health scare at 42 that made me reassess everything. Took a risk and went to part time consulting from home. Cut our income in half but I'm actually here. I coach my daughter's soccer team, I know my boys' teachers' names, I can help ...
My wife said she wants me to be more emotional and cry when I'm sad instead of just staying stoic. Said it would help me process things better. I get what she means but there's something to being steady when your family needs you. I don't see crying as weakness but I also don't see it as strength. A...
Feeling defeated. My 16 year old says he doesn't believe in God anymore and doesn't want to attend church. I've been trying the hard line approach, making it mandatory, but that's just making things worse between us. My wife thinks I should back off and let him ask questions. I'm terrified he's goin...
My company just announced we can wear jeans and t-shirts now. I'm still wearing slacks and a button down every day. Some of the younger guys are giving me grief but I don't care. A man should present himself with some dignity and respect, especially in a professional setting. Standards matter. The f...
About two months ago I decided we were going to pray as a family every night before bed. No excuses, no skipping it. My wife was skeptical at first but even she's noticed the difference. My oldest who has anxiety issues seems calmer. We talk about our day, what we're grateful for, what we're worried...