Had a rough day at the office and came home and yelled at my kids for something stupid. They didn't deserve that. My stress isn't their fault but I'm taking it out on them and I hate it. Been trying to decompress before I walk in the door, go for a run or just sit in the car for 10 minutes but some ...
My ex is supposed to give me updates about the kids when they're with her but lately I'm lucky if I get one text a day. She says I'm being overbearing when I ask about their week or if they're doing okay. I'm not trying to be weird about it, I just want to know my kids are safe. The custody agreemen...
So my ex has been seeing someone for a few months and now he's been at drop offs and apparently spending time with the kids when they're over there. I don't have anything against the guy but like, they haven't been dating that long and I'm not super comfortable with him being a regular presence yet....
Taking the kids (3, 7, and 9) camping for the first time in like 15 years. Got a decent tent and some sleeping bags but I'm worried about a few things. How do you keep kids entertained when there's no WiFi lol. Also what's the move for bathroom situations, especially with the little one? And should ...
Got a 14 pounder from Costco and planning to smoke it starting at like 5am. Using my offset smoker with oak and hickory. Planning the low and slow approach, 225 degrees for probably 10-12 hours. Gonna wrap it in butcher paper when it hits the stall. This is my third time doing this so hopefully it t...
My 4 year old is up at 5:45am no matter what time he goes to bed. I'm trying to get to the gym before work to stay sane but I'm either waking up at 4:30 to fit it in or I'm just skipping it. The kids are up so early that by the time I log on at 8 I already feel like I've worked a full day. How are y...
So the company actually came through and approved my request for 3 months when the baby comes in May. Everyone keeps congratulating me but honestly I'm freaking out. How am I supposed to step away for that long without my projects falling apart? I'm already thinking about all the emails piling up an...
He threw up at lunch and they needed pickup asap. I was in the middle of presenting to the VP and had to literally step out. Got him, took him home, came back but the damage was done. My boss didn't say anything but you could feel the vibe shift. I hate feeling like I have to choose between being a ...
Took her phone away for a week last month and we had a huge fight. But then we sat down and I actually explained how the algorithm works and why it's designed to keep her scrolling. Showed her some YouTube videos about it. Now she actually WANTS to limit her time because she understands she's being ...
Been a Christian my whole life but lately I've been struggling with anger, gossip, and just general selfishness. My kids are watching all of it. I know I need to be the spiritual leader in my home but how do I lead them to Christ when I'm constantly messing up? Do I talk to them about my struggles o...
My 7yo actually laughed at this one which means I'm officially the funniest person alive. Don't worry I already know I peaked today.
Started a Sunday tradition where everyone puts phones down and we eat together. No exceptions. My boys are learning to hold a real conversation, look people in the eye, and appreciate good food and family. It's old fashioned but it works. My grandfather did this with us and I'm doing it now. Some th...
Had my hours reduced at work and now my child support payment is going to be tough. My kids still need to eat and live at my place 5 days a week so my expenses didn't go down. Can I get a modification or is my ex going to fight me on this? Don't want to miss a payment but also need to be realistic a...
My 6 year old asks me why I'm looking at a map instead of using my phone GPS. I tell him 'Because real men don't ask for directions, we just explore.' He says 'Dad, you've been driving in circles for 20 minutes.' Busted. Kids have no mercy.
I gave him a banana for snack and he just looked at me and goes "thank you daddy". His mom's been working on manners but man that just melted my heart. Feeling like we're doing something right with this kid.