My 11-year-old randomly asked me this last night while I was making dinner. I wasn't expecting it. I said no (which is true - I'm not angry, more just... done with her). But now I'm wondering if the way I talk about custody stuff or logistics is making him think I'm mad. I don't badmouth her to the ...

This has been going on for months. We'll put socks on him, he tears them off immediately. We've tried different brands, textures, colors... nothing works. He says they "feel funny." I don't get it but now I'm just accepting that his feet are going to be cold. My daughter never did this so I'm wonde...

My 4yo has decided broccoli, peas, spinach, literally anything green is basically poison. We've tried the usual stuff - dipping sauce, mixing it in, calling it "dinosaur food" whatever. His 7yo sister will eat anything but this one? Nope. Thinking about just accepting we're gonna have a scurvy situa...

My son is 11 and starting middle school in the fall. Like half his class already has phones, and his mom (we're split custody) is pushing to get him one so they can "stay in touch." I get it but... I'm not ready. He loses everything - his retainer, his glasses, his homework - so a $700 phone feels l...

I grew up barely talking to my dad about feelings or anything real. He was just... there but not really present. Now I have three boys and sometimes I catch myself being exactly like him—physically present but mentally checked out, not asking about their day, just going through motions. It scares me...

This happened last weekend and I'm still processing it. Picked up Jake from school on Friday and he mentioned that when his mom drops him off at my place, he sees her crying in the car. He asked me why. I didn't know what to say. I kept it simple - "mom loves you very much and sometimes parents fee...

Planning a long weekend and want to break it up so nobody loses their mind in the car. We're looking at about 8 hours total so I'm thinking stop somewhere halfway? Considering going through eastern Utah to see some smaller parks or towns. Need recommendations for kid-friendly stops, good overnight s...

Like obviously I love my boys (7 and 10) but there are days where I resent the hell out of them. Resent that I can't just go do my own thing, resent that my free time is gone, resent that I have to be "on" all the time. I feel guilty saying that out loud so I haven't told anyone except now random in...

I'm 42, got a 4yo and a 2yo, working from home which sounds convenient but it's a nightmare. I can't focus on work, I'm snapping at my wife constantly, and the kids are acting out because they can tell I'm stressed. I feel like I'm just... bad at all of it. Not even doing one thing well. How do othe...

So I had a scare last month where a stranger was messaging my 10yo on Roblox. Nothing escalated but it shook me. I know this stuff happens but I'm trying to find the balance between keeping him safe and letting him actually play online games like a normal kid. Do I hover? Do I have him show me all h...

Dollar store headphones. I bought like 10 pairs. Now whenever my kids start fighting I just hand them each a pair and tell them to watch something on a tablet. Silence. Pure bliss. If you haven't figured this out yet you're welcome.

This is a rant. I hate that I can't just text friends and say 'drinks tonight?' anymore. Everything requires negotiation with my wife about whose turn it is, babysitter costs, bedtime schedules. My social life went from 'go with the flow' to 'spreadsheet management'. Some days I resent it hard.

We got one of these on a recommendation and used it for the first 2 months with our newborn. Loved the peace of mind but also... I was checking the app constantly? Like obsessively. Finally took it off because I realized I was creating more anxiety than relief. The sock itself is well-made and didn'...

Is it normal to feel them coming on but not be able to stop them even when you know what's happening? Like I can literally feel my chest tightening and my brain going into overdrive but I can't seem to de-escalate no matter what I try. Breathing exercises, grounding techniques, nothing works once it...

My 9yo wants to do cool experiments but half the Pinterest stuff I try either doesn't work or is basically just mixing baking soda and vinegar again. Anyone have recommendations for actual science experiments that don't require a PhD to understand? Bonus points if I already have the supplies.