Five years as a single dad, just got remarried
I was a stay at home dad for five years after my divorce. Learned to braid hair, pack school lunches like a pro, and watch way too many Disney movies. Just married an amazing woman
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How life changed since becoming a dad. Identity shifts, things you miss, things you gained, the transformation of fatherhood.
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I was a stay at home dad for five years after my divorce. Learned to braid hair, pack school lunches like a pro, and watch way too many Disney movies. Just married an amazing woman
Used to work 60 hour weeks in finance. Made good money but barely saw my kids. My son asked me last year why I didn't come to his school field day. That hit different. Took a job t
Don't get me wrong, being a dad is the best thing that's ever happened to me. But man, I miss sleeping past 6am on weekends. I miss going to concerts without worrying about a babys
She left when the kids were 4 and 6. I had to learn how to do braids, how to pack lunches, how to manage a household on my own while working full time. I went from being the guy wh
Two years ago I was basically sedentary. Worked from home, sat all day, went to the fridge during breaks instead of the gym. I'm not gonna lie, the first few weeks of running were
I don't even know where to start. Five years ago I was a mess. Drinking every night, missing my kids's school events, sleeping till noon on weekends, my wife was ready to leave. To
It's weird being on the other side of this. I worked my ass off, changed everything about how I eat and move, and the physical results are obvious. But what's really messing with m
Got sober 10 years ago after my second DUI and my wife threatening to leave. A decade is a long time and I'm basically a different person now. Don't miss the hangovers or the shame
My father was checked out emotionally my whole childhood. Worked 80 hours a week, came home tired, barely knew my name. I swore I'd be different. Now I'm coaching my kids' soccer,
Started getting fit after my dad had a heart attack when I was 40. Got serious about the gym, cut out the fast food, the whole thing. Dropped 80 lbs over 18 months and felt amazing
Left my job as a marketing manager making decent money to be home with the kids while my wife went back to work. Best and hardest decision I've made. Miss the adult conversations a
I was that guy who swore he wouldnt turn into his father or lose his identity or whatever. Five years and two kids later and I am absolutely my father. I own a grill I actually use
Before I had kids I thought people who bragged about waking up early were insufferable. Now I'm that guy. I miss sleeping past 7 but I gotta admit theres something about having two
Used to spend every weekend on my motorcycle or at the gym. Havent been on the bike in like three years. Started staying home more after my daughter was born and honestly I thought
3 years sober as of today. Not going to lie, the first 6 months were the hardest thing I've ever done. Lost friends who were drinking buddies, had to actually deal with my feelings
Wife's career took off and we decided I'd be the primary caregiver for a few years. It's been amazing with the kids but I miss being a person with an identity outside of dad stuff.
Spent years being the guy who said yes to everything, stayed out late, bought whatever the kids wanted to win their affection after the split. Then I realized they needed boundarie
Left my job 12 months ago making 180k a year because I was barely seeing my kids. Took the leap into freelance consulting. Income is probably 40% of what it was but my calendar is
Just hit my 5 year mark. Five years ago I was a different person. Angry, checked out, drinking every night after work. My wife was ready to leave and honestly I don't blame her. I
I was sedentary, overweight, basically gave up on myself. Started running three years ago just to feel better. Now I do half marathons and lift. Lost 60 pounds. But the weird part