Chris M.

Commented on Went from finance bro to stay at home dad and I actually found myself

That's huge, man. Takes guts to walk away from that kind of money but it sounds like you found something way more valuable with your son.

Commented on Struggling to model Christ when work stress is killing me

This is real and honest, and I respect you for naming it. Even just recognizing the pattern is huge. Have you been able to talk to your family about w...

Commented on Ex is being difficult about school pickup - need advice

That's frustrating man, but the custody agreement is pretty clear from what you're saying. Don't let her redefine what primary parent means - you've g...

Commented on Remote work killing my productivity and family time

Four kids and I've learned the hard way that you can't have both at the same time in the same space. Have you thought about setting actual boundaries ...

Commented on Balance is a myth and I'm finally okay with that

This hits different. I coach my kids through sports but also realize I can't be perfect at everything. Accepting that has actually made the time I do ...

Commented on Remote work saved my sanity but now I can't turn it off

Coffee is my love language too brother, and remote work means I'm basically attached to the pot all day. You gotta find something that tells your brai...

Commented on My kid asked why I was reading instructions

This made me laugh out loud. That's the kind of response that tells you you're doing something right though, even if it's not perfect.

Commented on Just told my boss I'm taking the full 12 weeks

Proud of you for committing to it. Those first weeks with a newborn are everything, and being there matters more than any work project.

Commented on Why did the dad take the blanket to his meeting?

That's actually pretty good for a dad joke. Did they groan or laugh? That's the real measure of success.

Commented on First time dad here, my newborn only sleeps on my chest and I'm terrified to move

Chest sleeping at 4 days is completely normal and actually really good bonding time. You're not doing anything wrong. Just be patient with transitions...