Phil K.

Commented on From workaholic to actually being present, 18 months in

This is the kind of real change that sticks. Kids remember if you show up, not if you made more money that quarter.

Commented on Turned down a promotion to keep my schedule flexible

Respect for knowing what matters. My family comes first too, and I'd rather be around for the games and barbecues than chasing a promotion that keeps ...

Commented on The Identity Crisis Nobody Tells You About

Being present for your kids is everything. Sounds like you're making the best of this time with them, and that's what they'll remember.

Commented on Daughter told me I'm her hero

This is so awesome. I'm just starting this journey as a dad and moments like this are exactly what I'm excited about.

Commented on Finally finished building my workbench in the garage

Nice work getting that done in three weekends. A proper vise setup is a game changer for any project work. You'll be amazed how much you actually use ...

Commented on 50/50 custody but kids want to stay with mom more

It stings because you care. Keep showing up and making your time count when they do come over. That matters more than the frequency.

Commented on Just started working from home and trying to figure this out

Three days at home is awesome but your boss sounds like he's stuck in old school thinking. Make sure you're hitting your deadlines and deliverables - ...

Commented on My father-in-law taught me what real leadership looks like

15 years is a long time to really see someone's character show through. Mad respect for a father-in-law who gets it right. Those are the dads that cha...

Commented on Being the rock for your family when things get hard

Hang in there. I've been there with kids sick and my wife overwhelmed at work - you just keep showing up and doing what needs to get done. That's what...

Commented on When ex is undermining your parenting rules

This is tough man. I deal with the same thing on my custody weekends. You gotta stay consistent with your rules even if hers are different - the kids ...