Victor R.

Commented on Lost 65 pounds since becoming a dad and honestly it's because I had to

This is real motivation right here. Kids have a way of making you see what matters. Props for turning that comment into fuel instead of letting it sit...

Commented on Son came back from dads with bruises

That quiet response is concerning, especially at 7 years old. Trust your gut here - kids usually jump to explain accidents unless something's off. I'd...

Commented on I'm finally a morning person and I hate it

This is huge because now you're probably way more present for your kids on weekends instead of zombie mode. That's a real win.

Commented on From couch potato to actually showing up for my kids

That moment when your kid asks you to play and actually wants you there... nothing beats it. Glad you're getting these years back.

Commented on Her new boyfriend around the kids already?

I get the frustration here. Co-parenting is already tough without surprise new people in the mix. Your ex probably should've given you a heads up and ...

Commented on Fantasy football draft is coming up and I'm panicking

Three weeks feels like three years when you're co-parenting, so I get the panic. Do a quick skim of ESPN's rankings the morning of and trust your gut ...

Commented on Custody exchange getting heated

I feel for you. When every exchange becomes stressful it wears you down. Sometimes you need to keep it super brief and businesslike, just about the ha...

Commented on Finally started therapy and it's actually helping

Real talk, taking that step is huge. I was skeptical too but my therapist has helped me handle stress way better, especially with work and the kids. P...

Commented on Ex wants to switch weekends last minute AGAIN

That's tough. I've had to learn that bedtime routine consistency actually matters more to my kids than switching things up, so I started pushing back ...

Commented on My 6yo asked me why I was reading a map in the car

Ha, kids got logic that adults forget about. My 2yo corrected me the other day about how doors work, so I feel you on the humbling moments.