She got a job offer in Seattle and wants to relocate with the kids. Our custody agreement says mutual agreement required for moves over 50 miles. Obviously I don't agree because that cuts my time in half basically. Our lawyer says I can contest it but that's gonna be expensive and messy. Has anyone ...
Just got back from a 4-day conference in Vegas. My kids were fine, my wife held down the fort. Logically I know this is normal and necessary. But my 3yo wouldn't make eye contact with me for like 20 minutes when I got home and I just... sat in the driveway for 10 minutes feeling like the worst perso...
She was SO nervous before the tryout. She's 9 and this is her first competitive team. Been playing rec league for a couple years but this was different. Anyway she made it and the look on her face when she found out was everything. She's been practicing in the backyard literally every day since and ...
My 6yo asked me this morning if mommy and daddy would "be a family again." Divorce was finalized 18 months ago and we've both moved on. He seems to understand it logically but I think he still holds onto hope sometimes. How do you keep reinforcing that this is just how it is without making him feel ...
My 5yo couldn't find her shoe today and I LOST IT. Completely disproportionate reaction. Wife looked at me like "dude that's not normal" and she's right. It's like my fuse is super short lately. I went for a run after and felt better but I hate that I need to manage myself like this around my own ki...
We got one as a gift and honestly it's been the only thing that calms my son down enough to set him down. Before this he'd wake up the second you transferred him. Just wondering if we should invest in a second one for the living room or if that's ridiculous.
My 10yo is super into building and tech stuff. We got him a basic LEGO set for his birthday but now he's interested in the robotics kits. They're expensive ($350+) and I'm not sure if he'll stick with it or if it's just a phase. Anyone have experience with these? Do kids actually use them long-term ...
Been working with him on this for like 6 months. Every morning it's been "Dad can you do my laces?" and I kept saying "you're almost there buddy." This morning he just... did it. Both shoes. Bunny ears method but who cares. His little face when he realized he did it was everything. My wife caught it...
Does your ex expect you to pay half of summer camp costs? My ex just registered our 9yo without asking and sent me an invoice for half. We split big expenses but I wasn't consulted about which camp or anything. Feels like I should have had input but also don't want to be petty about money when it's ...
Got this for my 5yo for his birthday and it's genuinely the best $80 I've spent. Durable, educational games actually keep him engaged, and the parental controls are legit. Most kids' tablets feel cheap but this one is solid. Highly recommend if you've been on the fence about getting one.
We agreed on the shopping center parking lot by Target in our custody agreement. My ex keeps wanting to do handoffs at her new apartment or at the kids' school. Like, I get it, it's inconvenient for her, but that's not what we agreed to and it messes with my schedule when I have to drive to differen...
Been using it for about 6 months now with my 10 and 12 year old. Can see what they're downloading, set app limits per app (not just total screen time which I liked), bedtime schedules, and lock their phones remotely if needed. The lock feature has been a lifesaver for homework time. Not perfect but ...
Why do they ALL need batteries and make noises? My 3yo got this toy from my in-laws and it's SO LOUD. It plays 50 different songs. Who asked for this? I just want blocks and building stuff that's QUIET. Am I being that guy? Probably. But seriously if I hear the Wheels on the Bus song one more time I...
So my oldest just started middle school and apparently had a falling out with his best friend from elementary over something stupid (choosing different lunch table groups?? still not entirely clear). He's in his room, won't talk about it, and I'm getting the silent treatment when I try to ask. I rem...
Everyone in our area does like 3-4 activities per kid and I think it's insane. We do one activity per kid per season and honestly our family is so much less stressed. Kids actually have time to be bored and play outside. Anyone else bucking the trend or is everyone just gonna roast me?