We switched churches about 6 months ago and found a place that really fits our family. There's a solid men's group that meets weekly, the kids actually engage with the youth stuff, and my wife and I feel like we're growing spiritually together for the first time in years. It sounds simple but having...

So my wife and I decided we're ripping out our 1987 kitchen and doing it ourselves to save money. I've got some construction experience but this is bigger than anything I've done. We're doing cabinets, counters, new sink, the whole thing. We're planning to do most of it over the next 8 weeks before ...

I asked my 7yo if he knew why the cookie went to the doctor. He said no and I said because it felt crumbly. He LAUGHED. Not groaned, not rolled his eyes, actually laughed. I'm basically a comedy genius now.

Made a joke about the wife's cooking in front of the kids and now they keep repeating it. Wife is NOT amused. Kids think I'm hilarious but I'm sleeping on the couch if I make one more crack. Worth it though, their giggles were gold.

New project at work is eating up all my time and I'm missing stuff with the kids. Worked late 5 nights this week and barely saw them before bed. Wife is frustrated, kids asked why I'm always tired, and I don't have a good answer. Anyone else dealing with this? How do you find balance when work gets ...

Was asked to come talk about my job at the auto shop. Brought in some tools, did a little demo with the kids, let them sit in the service bay. Teachers said they've never seen the kids that engaged before. My son was beaming the whole time watching me up there. Felt like a superhero honestly.

Lost my old man last month. Guys were asking if we were close and I realized most people wouldn't understand what I mean when I say yes. He never hugged me much or said the words. But he taught me how to fix things, how to own my mistakes, how to take care of my family without complaining. He showed...

Been working with my 8 year old on his handshake. Firm grip, eye contact, clear voice when he says his name. My dad taught me this way and I'll be damned if this generation grows up doing that weak fish handshake thing. Took him to church last Sunday and he shook the pastor's hand like a man. Made m...

My 10 and 12 year old are begging for phones like every other kid in their class apparently has. I feel like I'm the bad guy but something about it just feels wrong. They can use tablets for homework and stuff but owning their own phone feels like a different thing. Anyone else holding the line on t...

Looking for trail recommendations near Eagle Rock that won't destroy two kids aged 6 and 9. We've done easier stuff before but they're getting stronger. Want something with a payoff at the end like a view or a waterfall or something so they actually feel like we accomplished something. We usually do...

My father taught me this and I'm passing it on. Been working with my boys on shaking hands properly, standing up straight, and making eye contact when meeting adults. Sounds old fashioned but it opens doors. People remember a young man with confidence and respect. My oldest got complimented by his c...

Had a falling out with a buddy of 20 years because he was being disrespectful to his wife in front of me and others. I called him out on it privately and he got defensive, said I was being judgmental. We haven't talked since. I feel bad about losing the friendship but I couldn't stay quiet. A real m...

I actually caught myself telling my kid a completely genuine, unprompted dad joke yesterday. I said 'You know why the scarecrow won an award? Because he was outstanding in his field.' And I MEANT it. I wasn't even trying to embarrass him. This is who I've become. Please send help.

So my 12 year old was watching YouTube and somehow ended up at a video about VPNs and now she thinks she's some kind of hacker. Shes asking me a bunch of questions about proxies and hiding her IP address. I dont want to be the fun police but also... should I be worried? Whats the line between curiou...

So my 6 year old asks me 'Dad why are you called dad?' and I'm thinking this is some philosophical moment. Nope. He goes 'Because you're bad at jokes?' I have never been so roasted by someone who still wears Velcro shoes. The disrespect. I'm going to tell him that joke when he has kids just to make ...