I was that guy who went out 4-5 nights a week. Did fantasy football, went to games, slept till noon on weekends. My apartment was basically a man cave. Now I'm waking up at 6am whether I want to or not, I know all the words to 8 different kids shows, and I'm genuinely excited about farmer's market o...

Tried to hit him with a classic "Why did the scarecrow win an award? Because he was outstanding in his field." He stares at me and goes "Dad, why did YOU tell that joke? Because you were outstanding in your terrible." I've never been so proud and so roasted at the same time.

Accidentally got too much change at the grocery store today. Went back to return it even though it was just $7. My son saw the whole thing. Later he asked why I did that when I could've kept it. I told him a man's word and reputation are all he's got in this world. Can't put a price on that.

Just finished True Detective season 1 again. My wife thinks I'm crazy for rewatching it but there's something perfect about a good show with complex characters. Wife's asleep, kids are down, I got my coffee. These are my golden hours.

Wife made significantly more than me so when our first was born it just made financial sense. I was terrified about it. Who was I if I wasn't the provider? Spent the first 6 months feeling like I was failing at everything. But then something shifted. I stopped measuring myself by the paycheck and st...

So my 8yo told me he finished his homework when he clearly didn't. Found out from his teacher. I immediately got angry and yelled at him, then sent him to his room. My wife later asked me if that's how Jesus would have handled it and man, that hit different. I've been preaching integrity and honesty...

Got offered a promotion that would mean more travel and longer hours. The pay bump is solid but I'd miss a lot with the kids. My oldest is 7 and my youngest just turned 4. I keep thinking about all the soccer games and school pickups I'd miss but my wife also wants us to get ahead financially for co...

Got approved to work from home 3 days a week starting next month and I cannot overstate how big this is for me. I can actually be here for pickup some days, eat lunch with my kids, and be around if something comes up. My commute was eating 2 hours a day. Still working hard, still in meetings, but I'...

Got tired of seeing every man at church and around town dressed like they just rolled out of bed. Started dressing up a bit more - button up shirts, actual pants, leather shoes instead of sneakers. A few guys have mentioned it and I can tell some think I'm being weird but I don't care. Dressing well...

I'm taking my full 12 weeks when baby arrives in February and I've already been getting some comments from coworkers about it. One guy asked if I was really going to take all of it and another said he only took 2 weeks. I don't care. My wife needs support, my baby needs his dad, and the company will...

Sometimes I wonder if I'm old fashioned insisting my kids keep their promises, own their mistakes, and treat others with dignity. The culture seems to say it doesn't matter anymore. But then I look at the men I respect and they all have that core. How are you guys passing this down to your kids? Wha...

Had the opportunity to move up last month. More money, more prestige, everything I thought I wanted. But it meant travel 3 weeks a month and my oldest starts middle school next year. I need to be here for that. Not gonna lie it stings a little but my kid's only gonna be a first year middle schooler ...

Been working with him all summer and today he just took off down the driveway. My wife recorded it and I'm not gonna lie, I teared up a little. All those skinned knees and frustrated tears finally paid off. He's already asking to go again tomorrow. Best feeling ever.

Every single day around 3pm I start getting anxious about nothing and everything at the same time. My heart races, I get this sense of dread. Then the kids get home and it kind of goes away but comes back later. Anyone else deal with this? I've been trying exercise but it's hard with my schedule. Th...

I know I'm like 15 years late to the party but holy crap this show is funny. We're on season 3 and I've already watched some episodes twice. Michael Scott is absolutely cringe but that's what makes it work. My wife keeps laughing at me for laughing so hard at scenes she's already seen a hundred time...