My boss pulled me aside yesterday because I've been making mistakes and missing deadlines. The thing is I KNOW I'm messing up but I can't stop second guessing everything I do. I spend 3 hours on something that should take 45 minutes because I keep going back to check it. Started having panic attacks...
This is killing me. He says he misses his mom too much on my weekends. We do stuff together, I cook dinner, we play games, but he just seems sad the whole time. His mom says she's not telling him to feel this way but I don't know if I believe that. How do I fix this without making him feel guilty? I...
Got the divorce finalized 3 months ago and I'm struggling more than I thought I would. I'm alone in an apartment most nights and the silence is deafening. I have my kids every other weekend which is great but it's the weeknights that kill me. Trying to get out more, joined a gym, but I still feel is...
I pay a good chunk every month and I see my kids twice a week. She stays home and I'm out here working 50 hours a week. The amount they set is more than half my rent. I know it's for the kids but man does it sting when I see her posting vacations on Instagram. How do you guys deal with this mentally...
This is the third time in two months she's asked to swap weekends. I get it life happens but I have plans with my kids that I've been looking forward to. How do I set boundaries without being the bad guy? She always makes me feel like I'm being unreasonable when I say no. Any advice on how to handle...
Splurged on a Traeger pellet smoker last month and honestly it's changed everything. Been smoking briskets on Sunday and my neighbors are definitely noticing lol. Anyone else using one? Want to get better at maintaining temps overnight.
Set it up last week and wow what a difference. My 7 year old can't even open YouTube after 7pm now. He complained for a day then got over it. Using it for all three kids now. Way better than me constantly saying no.
Took my 8 year old to a local pond last weekend and caught our first catfish together. He was so excited. Going to make this a regular thing. Looking for recommendations on decent beginner gear that won't break the bank for when I take him and his little brother.
Just installed a projector and sound system in the basement. Wife said I could have the space as long as I keep it organized and don't let it become a total disaster zone. Already watching all the games down there this season. Added some comfortable seating and a mini fridge. This is my happy place.
She's 11 and says she needs it for school projects and to stay in touch with friends. Honestly I'm not ready for her to have Instagram access yet. What age did you guys cave and get your kids their first phone? And what parental controls are actually worth using?
We let our 5 and 7 year old watch some stuff on rainy days. Bluey and some basic educational channels but I'm open to suggestions. What do you guys recommend that's actually decent content? Trying to avoid the trashy stuff that teaches nothing.
Im the main breadwinner for my family and the anxiety about providing is literally constant. Im doing fine, my job is stable, but my brain always goes to worst case scenarios. What if I lose my job, what if Im not making enough, what if I fail them. I know this isnt rational but I cant turn it off. ...
Been married 9 years and I realize I've let my wife carry most of the spiritual load for our family. She does devotions, prays with the kids, and basically runs our faith life. Im not a bad guy but Im lazy about it. This year I committed to leading family prayer time and Bible reading but honestly s...
Our church has always taught that Sundays are a day of rest and focused on the Lord but I sometimes let my kids play video games on Sunday afternoon. My mom made a comment about it last week and now Im second guessing myself. I still take them to church in the morning and we have family dinner but t...
I'm working 50+ hours a week, daughter is 3, we're barely keeping our heads above water financially and emotionally. Wife brought up trying for baby number 2 and I just shut down. I love our daughter more than anything but I'm exhausted all the time. Feel guilty even saying this. How do other guys h...