My wife has us both in like 3 different baby apps tracking sleep, feeding, development milestones. It's helpful but also stressing me out because I feel like if I don't log something within an hour the data gets messy. Do other dads use these or are we overthinking this? Our boy is 6 weeks. Just wan...

My son is 3 weeks old and doesn't seem to know the difference between night and day. He's up for 3-4 hours starting around midnight and then sleeps all morning while I'm supposed to be working from home. My wife and I are both running on fumes. Does this get better or is this just life now? I've hea...

I panicked, we did the whole birds and the bees conversation. Get to the hospital part and she just goes "oh so babies are made in the hospital?" No sweetie they're made at home. She's 7 and now I'm pretty sure she thinks that's a thing. My wife is still laughing at me for how badly I explained that...

So same league I've been in for 12 years with college buddies and the trash talk has reached insane levels this year. One guy quit his team mid season cause he was losing and now we're all arguing about whether that's allowed. Meanwhile my team is somehow in first place despite me barely paying atte...

I told my son that a bicycle can't stand on its own because it's two tired. Kid actually thought about it for like 30 seconds before groaning and walking away. That 30 seconds of contemplation before the groan is what being a dad is all about honestly. Living for those moments.

I used to be that guy. You know, stayed up til 2am, weekends were for gaming marathons, my identity was basically tied to being the 'cool single guy with no responsibilities.' Then my daughter was born 6 months ago and honestly? I miss the sleep but I don't miss the emptiness. I used to think all-ni...

Just wanted to share a win. My lawyer told me yesterday that the judge approved 50/50 custody. Been a long year of court dates and legal bills but it was worth it. I get every other week with my kids and it feels like I'm actually their dad again instead of just the weekend guy. If anyone else is in...

Just wanted to share some pics of the garage setup I've been working on. Got the pool table in, mounted the TV, and built some shelving for my gaming collection. The wife said I could have Fridays after the kids are in bed. Spent way too much money but it's my happy place now. Been going out there a...

Even with the weather turning cold I'm still out there most weekends. Got a new reverse sear technique dialed in for steaks. Started a grill club with some neighbors where we rotate houses and someone brings the meat. Best decision ever. My backyard has turned into the hangout spot which is hilariou...

Studied for like 3 months while juggling work and kids. Barely had time to think. Got the results back this morning and I passed on the first try. Feel like I can breathe again. My oldest made me a card that says I'm the smartest dad ever. Pretty sure that's not accurate but I'll take it. Got a nice...

We were driving home and she just out of nowhere asked if I was proud of myself. I said yeah, for what though. She said because I'm a good dad and I work hard. Man I couldn't talk for like 20 seconds. She's 9. Those moments hit different when you're in a work rut.

My company finally approved my paternity leave request and I should be excited but I'm already anxious about coming back. There's a huge project launching while I'm gone and I feel like I'm letting my team down. My manager says it's fine and they have coverage but I can't shake the worry. Anyone els...

Wife had to stop breastfeeding due to medication and we switched to formula. Part of me is relieved because now I can actually help with night feedings but I also feel like I'm missing out on that bonding thing everyone talks about. Anyone got advice on connecting with the baby during bottle time? O...

Been divorced for 2 years now and we had a pretty straightforward agreement, I get every other weekend plus Wednesday nights. Lately she keeps texting me last minute asking if I can swap weekends or she's picking up the kids late or bringing them back early. I want to be flexible but it's making it ...

We're doing a 3 day camping trip next month with the boys (ages 4 and 7). I've got the tent situation figured out but I'm worried about meals and keeping them entertained. We're going to a state park with a lake nearby. Anyone have experience with this? Should I pack way more food than I think we ne...