Looking for something moderate that won't completely destroy my 5yo's legs. We did Multnomah Falls last month and she surprised us, but I don't want to overdo it. Need to actually finish the hike without carrying a 40lb toddler the last mile lol. Something with water or views to keep her engaged? We...
Took my boy out to the lake last Saturday for his first real fishing trip. We didn't catch much but we just sat there talking about life and I realized how rare that is these days. He's 14 and usually got his nose in his phone. Something about being out on the water just opened him up. Felt like I w...
Wild question but I'm obsessed with data. Noticed that when *I* get bad sleep, my 8yo is somehow worse behaved the next day. Like it's contagious or something. Wondering if other dads have noticed similar patterns? Or am I just looking for patterns that aren't there lol
My 8yo just asked me flat out where babies come from. I was NOT prepared. I gave him a very technical, very clinical explanation about sperm and eggs and he just stared at me. Then asked if we could go get ice cream instead. My wife says I handled it fine but I feel like I overcomplicated it? How di...
My company is "hybrid" which means 3 days in office, 2 days remote. Sounds good in theory but it's actually a nightmare. I have to do daycare drop-off every morning, which means I'm rushing out of the house stressed. On office days I can't pick up early if needed. On remote days I'm still not really...
He means well but he's the type to want to take over and do things his way. My wife is stressed about it too. How do you set boundaries with parents without being an asshole? Do we just say no? Say yes but set rules? I don't want him there for the whole first month like my mom is suggesting.
Kids are 6, 8, and 10. Currently doing 1 hour on school days, 2 on weekends. But during summer break we're all kinda losing it. The older two want to play Fortnite with their friends and I don't know how much is reasonable. My wife thinks we should be stricter. What are you guys doing? Are you scree...
First kid due in 3 months, and I've been obsessing over the registry. Got: crib, bassinet, stroller, car seat, bottles, pump, high chair (for later), bunch of clothes. Am I missing something that will make the first 3 months actually survivable? Wife says I'm good but I keep feeling like there's som...
Currently using a shared Google calendar and texting, which is a mess. My ex and I get along okay but I'm tired of the back-and-forth about pickup times and expenses. Someone mentioned OurFamilyWizard - is it worth the subscription? Any other apps people actually use and like?
Had someone tell me today I was "such a great dad" because I was at my kid's school event on a weekday. Like... I'm just doing the thing? Not every dad can make it work schedule-wise so I respect that, but I also didn't think showing up counts as extraordinary. Felt good in the moment but also kinda...
I love my wife and kids but I feel so alone. Don't have buddies to hang with anymore - everyone moved or had their own stuff. Work friends are work friends. Wife is mostly focused on the kids. I'm just existing in this house with people and feeling completely isolated. It's weird to feel lonely arou...
Got like 3 of these things as gifts and my 4-month-old just stares at them while I flail the toys around like an idiot. Cost me $200+ combined. Am I using them wrong or are babies just not into them?
Every. Single. Friday. My ex is late picking up the kids. Not by like 5 minutes, we're talking 15-20 minutes regularly. Then she acts like *I'm* the one being difficult when I mention it. I have plans sometimes, man. Or I just want to have my evening. Am I being petty if I charge her for my time or...
Since Netflix killed the shared password thing I've been looking at what we actually use and wow, we're paying for like 6 streaming services? Disney+, Netflix, HBO Max, Apple TV+, Hulu, and my wife has Peacock for some reason. And the kids watch maybe 10% of the content. Thinking about just rotating...
I switched from consulting (60 hour weeks, constant travel) to a boring but stable desk job that pays less. My old self would be horrified but my new self goes home by 5 and actually has dinner with my family. This seems like something people don't talk about enough. The whole trajectory just shifte...