My ex keeps bad-mouthing me to the kids
Been dealing with this for about 6 months now and I'm at my breaking point. My 7 year old came back after a weekend saying I 'ruined the family' because I'm apparently selfish. The
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Been dealing with this for about 6 months now and I'm at my breaking point. My 7 year old came back after a weekend saying I 'ruined the family' because I'm apparently selfish. The
The 50/50 split looked great on paper but my job requires travel and it's not working. Every other week I have the kids and then the weeks I don't I'm supposed to travel but I don'
50/50 physical custody, alternating weeks. Court just made it official yesterday and honestly I'm relieved we don't have to keep fighting about it. Now I'm wondering what other dad
My 6 year old asked me yesterday why he doesn't have a bedroom at my apartment like he does at moms house. I froze. He knows about the separation but I don't think he really unders
Been dealing with this for 3 months now. We agreed on Wednesdays and every other weekend but she's been texting last minute that she needs to switch days constantly. I work a speci
Found out through my daughter that mom's new boyfriend came to a family dinner last weekend. We've only been separated for 6 months and this guy apparently stayed over. I don't wan
Going through a custody battle right now and the lawyer said every text to my ex could be used against me. So now we use this weird app for all communication. It feels so formal an
We've been divorced 3 years and usually do Mon-Wed-Fri with me, rest with their mom. Got offered a promotion that would change my schedule completely. Actually sat down with my ex
Been doing this rotation for 8 months and it's killing me. Miss my kids constantly, then when they're here the whole time I'm stressed about logistics. Ex and I communicate through
So my ex and I have been doing week on week off for about 8 months now and it's killing me. I missed my son's baseball game last Thursday because it was her week and she didn't men
My girlfriend moved in about 2 months ago and now my ex is threatening to take me back to court saying the kids shouldn't be around someone we're not married to yet. Honestly I thi
Been trying to get confirmation on summer camp dates for two weeks now. I text, no response. I call, goes to voicemail. Then she messages me at 9pm saying she's 'too busy to deal w
My daughter came back from her mom's house and mentioned that her boyfriend yelled at her for not doing homework. First, I didn't know they were moving in together and living with
Situation changed and I want to try to get more custody time but I'm looking at $2-3k just for a consultation. Anyone know if there are legal aid options or if I should try to work
We've had the same Thursday evening and alternating weekends schedule for 2 years now. She just texted out of the blue saying she wants to switch it because her new job has differe
My 5 and 7 year old are finally asking the direct question. We kept thinking they'd just accept it as normal but now they want to know why we don't live together. My ex and I split
Long story short me and my ex are going back to court because she wants to modify custody. We've been coparenting pretty well for 3 years but apparently she thinks the kids should
Been fighting with my ex for months about communication. She would text me random stuff about the kids or drop info last minute that should've been discussed. Finally suggested we
So my ex has been consistently late picking up the kids on my days off. Like 30 mins to an hour late every other week. I've tried talking to her about it but she just makes excuses
Found out from my 12 year old that mom's been telling him I don't pay enough child support and that's why they can't get a new car. That money is literally being taken from my payc