Thinking about trying an online therapy platform since scheduling around work + 2 kids is impossible. Have heard mixed reviews on BetterHelp - some people say it saved them, others say it's too impersonal. The price point seems reasonable though. Does anyone here actually use it regularly? Curious a...
Been on it for about 4 weeks now and the anxiety is definitely down (which is great) but I feel kinda numb emotionally? Like I can be present with my 6yo and 3yo but I'm not really *feeling* it, if that makes sense. My therapist said it can take time to balance out. Just wondering if anyone else had...
Not like relationship-ending resentment but like... she gets to sleep in on weekends and I'm up with the kids. She has friend time, I don't. She went to yoga twice last week and I haven't had 30 minutes alone in I can't remember when. Then she gets frustrated that I'm "checked out emotionally." Tbh...
My ex lets the kids eat whatever they want, stay up till 11pm, and basically do whatever. When they come to me, my rules feel super strict by comparison even though I'm just trying to maintain basic structure. I've tried talking to her about consistency but she says "you're not the boss of me" whic...
My company offers "flexible schedules" which apparently means they're flexible about when I work, not about HOW MUCH I work. So I can pick up my kid at 3pm, sure, but then I'm catching up emails from 8-11pm. Or I can take Friday afternoon off but I'm expected to answer Slack on Saturday morning.
Going back to work in 2 weeks and honestly I'm spiraling a bit. Been home with my daughter for 3 months and I feel like I've just gotten to know her. She's smiling, recognizing me, I was there for all her firsts. How am I supposed to go back to sitting in meetings and pretending to care about quarte...
It's been almost 2 weeks now and I'm not gonna jinx it but... I think we're actually done with the 3am visits? We did the whole routine change thing - later bedtime, white noise, kept the door open for like a month - but holy crap I forgot what 7 straight hours of sleep feels like. My wife and I act...
Saw a guy at work with the new Pro Max and he kept going on about the camera. Mine works fine? Battery lasts all day. Does the new one actually do anything different or are we all just getting suckered into upgrades? Asking because my wife keeps hinting that I "deserve" a new phone for my birthday w...
Baby's 8 weeks old, second kid. Wife's doing okay actually. But I'm absolutely struggling. Zero motivation, everything feels pointless, I'm snapping at people for no reason, sleeping like garbage even when I get the chance. I keep reading that postpartum depression is for moms but honestly I think t...
We went to one of those paint-a-pot studios last weekend (I think it's called Pottery Cool or something similar?). I was expecting to hate it but honestly it was lowkey great. Gave him something actual to focus on instead of just running around. He spent like 90 min on a bowl, came home, we glazed i...
Just sat out there for like 20 min after work. Didn't even know I had it in me to cry but something about the pressure just broke. She was really sweet about it, didn't make it weird, just sat with me. But now I'm nervous about what it means or if she's going to worry about me differently. I'm usual...
Idk, I feel like everyone acts like 13 is some magic age but my 13yo is still not mature enough IMO. He forgets to eat when he's gaming, lies about screen time, and definitely can't handle social media drama responsibly. I'm keeping him phone-free for another year or two and honestly not stressed ab...
She's 12. All her friends apparently have it. I said no without even thinking about it. Now I feel bad because maybe I'm just being an out-of-touch dad? I genuinely don't understand the appeal. Is TikTok actually dangerous or am I being paranoid? Do any of you let your kids use it with restrictions ...
My co-parent and I have been texting/calling to coordinate and it's... messy. Lots of back-and-forths about pickups, whose buying what for school, etc. Saw OurFamilyWizard recommended on here a few times. Is it really better than just texting? And does my ex have to agree to use it or can I just set...
My 10yo keeps asking why he's the only one without a phone. I'm pretty sure he's not but according to him literally every kid in his grade has one. My gut says he's too young but the "everyone else has one" argument is... really hard to argue against. When did you guys bite the bullet? What age felt...