Teaching my son to be a man in 2024
Was talking to my boy about respect and standing up for what's right, and he asked me what that even means anymore. Got me thinking about what I learned from my father and grandfat
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Traditional values, southern gentleman leadership, raising respectful kids, teaching honor and integrity.
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Was talking to my boy about respect and standing up for what's right, and he asked me what that even means anymore. Got me thinking about what I learned from my father and grandfat
Made a deal with a contractor last week, shook on it, and he backed out when someone offered him more money. No contract, just agreed to help me with a remodel. My grandfather woul
Raising a family right means setting the standard. You lead by example, you keep your word, you provide, you listen when your wife has concerns, and you don't complain about the ha
Just moved to the south after living up north my whole life and I'm noticing something. People here still value courtesy, they still say yes sir and no ma'am, people help their nei
My 8 year old asked me why I stand up when his mom comes home from work. I explained it's a sign of respect and courtesy. He's started doing it too now. His teacher even mentioned
Been working with my 10 year old on proper handshake etiquette. Eye contact, firm grip, not crushing but not limp either. He met my boss last week and nailed it. The man actually c
Had the family over last Sunday and I noticed nobody really dresses up anymore. Even for a nice meal. I wear a button up, slacks, dress shoes. My brothers show up in joggers and ho
Took over my grandfather's hardware store last year. He always said your word is your bond and a handshake is a contract. Tried doing business that way and got burned twice. Everyo
My boys are growing up in a time where masculine values seem under attack. I'm trying to teach them that being a gentleman means being strong but kind, standing up for what's right
Started reading about servant leadership and it hit different than the domineering stuff I grew up with. My dad ran the household with an iron fist and I hated it. I want my kids t
My boy just turned 8 and I want to make sure he understands the values that matter. Strong handshake, looking people in the eye, saying yes sir and no ma'am, keeping your word. My
Been thinking a lot about what leadership in a family really means. It's not about being a dictator it's about making the hard calls with love and conviction. Setting the tone, pro
I get eye rolls at the grocery store when I open the door for my wife but I don't care. My daughters see that their mother is respected and my sons are learning that treating women
My 8 year old is getting soft. He cries over everything, doesn't want to do chores, complains about practice. I grew up doing hard work and my dad didn't coddle me. I'm trying to t
I'm trying to raise my kids with the values my father taught me. Yes sir, no sir, looking people in the eye, a firm handshake, opening doors for ladies, treating elders with respec
She's been on me about helping more around the house but that's not how I was raised. I work hard to provide for my family and maintain the house and yard. That's my responsibility
Took my boys to Sunday service in their khakis and polos today. You could see the respect in how people greeted them. Too many kids running around in those athletic shorts and t sh
Had a situation at the office where my boss wanted me to cut corners on a project to save money. I respectfully pushed back and explained why it wasnt the right move. Could have ju
My boy is 12 now and I think its time he learns what it really means to carry himself with respect and integrity. Been trying to lead by example but wondering what else I should be
Saw my nephew holding a door open for ladies the other day without even thinking about it and it made me proud. His dad raised him right. We need more of this in the world. Too man