Standing your ground respectfully
Had a situation at work where a younger guy was being rude in a meeting and everyone kind of accepted it. I pulled him aside after and told him straight up that his tone was disres
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Traditional values, southern gentleman leadership, raising respectful kids, teaching honor and integrity.
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Had a situation at work where a younger guy was being rude in a meeting and everyone kind of accepted it. I pulled him aside after and told him straight up that his tone was disres
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