Balancing work, family, and the mental load.
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Took 4 weeks off when my second was born and it was amazing. Now I'm back to the office 3 days a week and some days I feel like I'm just going through the motions. The weird part i
Got offered a big promotion that would mean more travel and longer hours. On paper it's everything I've been working towards for 5 years. But my oldest is going to be in school ful
Got offered a promotion that would mean way more hours and probably some travel. Six figures which we need, but my oldest starts middle school next year and I wanted to be more inv
So I took 6 weeks when my second kid was born and it was amazing but now I'm back at work and my wife is handling everything again. I feel like I abandoned her. I try to jump in so
Been WFH for 2 years now and I gotta say it's the best thing that happened to our family. I can take my son to school, eat lunch with my kids, be there when they get home. Yeah I w
Every Sunday night I'm stressed about the week ahead. Work stuff yeah but mostly worried if I'm doing enough for my kids during the week. Like am I checked out too much? Do they fe
Took 6 weeks off after my third kid was born and just returned Monday. Everything has changed, projects got reassigned, there's a new process for everything, and I feel completely
Got offered a regional manager spot that's a huge step up for my career. It checks all the boxes for money and status. Problem is it requires traveling to 4 different locations eve
Been working from home full time for about 8 months now and honestly it's a double edged sword. On one hand I get to have lunch with my kids and pick them up from school which is h
Got approved for 6 weeks starting next month and I'm weirdly anxious about it. Don't get me wrong, I want to be there for my wife and the baby, but I've been working since college
Been with my company 7 years. Two coworkers who started after me both got promoted in the last year. My manager said I'm doing great work but "not quite ready". The timing is weird
Work is insane right now, understaffed, deadlines moved up, and I feel like I'm drowning. Come home and kids need homework help, wife needs me to handle dinner, house is a mess. Li
Had my son burst into my home office during a client call yesterday screaming that his sister took his toy. Literally nothing I could do. Just sat there apologizing while he's in t
Work is insane right now, understaffed and my boss wants everything yesterday. Then I come home and I'm expected to be present with my 2 kids. I'm running on coffee and anger. By 8
So I've been working from home for 2 years and it was great. Now my 8 month old is here and I can't get anything done. My wife goes back to work next month and I'm supposed to do f
Got offered a promotion but it would mean traveling 2 weeks a month. My kids are 4 and 6. I know I should take the advancement but my gut is screaming no. My wife says she'll suppo
Took 3 months off when my twins were born and man, being back in the office feels weird. I'm happy to be working again but I'm missing so much. My 18 month old son said a new word
Company is letting me work from home 3 days a week but I keep thinking about what people will say. Know it's dumb but feel like I'll look like I'm not committed or not a team playe
Took 8 weeks after my second kid was born and it was incredible. Now I'm back and feel like I've been completely replaced. My projects got reassigned, my team barely acknowledges m
Getting through a major project at work and the last 3 weeks have been brutal. Leaving at 6am, getting home around 8pm, kids are already asleep most nights. My oldest asked my wife