Custody agreement question - summer schedules
So my ex and I are trying to figure out the summer schedule. My custody is every other week. She wants to do 6 weeks straight with the kids in July/August which would throw off our
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So my ex and I are trying to figure out the summer schedule. My custody is every other week. She wants to do 6 weeks straight with the kids in July/August which would throw off our
Our agreement says I get the kids Wed-Fri every week. Last month she had to keep them 2 extra days without asking, then 'forgot' to tell me about a doctor appointment they had. I'm
My 8 year old told his mom that I let him stay up until 9pm watching movies on my week. Now she's saying I'm not following the bedtime routine and wants to take it to court. The th
After months of back and forth, my ex and I settled on 50/50 with alternating weeks. It's not perfect but it's fair and the kids know exactly when they're with each parent. No more
This is my third week dealing with this. I'll plan my whole day around picking up the kids at 5pm on Friday and she texts at 3:45 saying she needs me to get them at 7. I work retai
Just got laid off from my job and I'm looking at probably a 30% pay cut when I find something new. My ex gets child support from me and I know I need to go back to court to adjust
This is driving me crazy. Our agreement says she gets the kids every other weekend but the past month she's been bailing or changing it last minute. Last weekend she texted Friday
Going through a divorce right now and trying to figure out how to keep things civil when we disagree on parenting decisions. Like she wants to put our 5yo in this expensive program
So my ex has been dating this guy for 6 months and now he's around my kids every time they're over there. I don't have anything against him specifically but it feels weird having s
Trying to figure out what's fair for summer since both me and my ex want to spend quality time with the kids. Our normal schedule is 50/50 but summer is different. She wants them f
Anyone else dealing with this? My ex keeps texting me last minute saying she can't do Friday pickups. I've adjusted my whole work schedule around this custody agreement and now I'm
My 8 year old came home saying mom said I forgot to pack his inhaler on purpose to 'make her look bad.' I would NEVER do that. He asked me if it was true and I didn't know what to
Started dating someone 3 months ago and it's getting serious. My ex is already threatening to use it against me in court saying I'm 'exposing the kids to an unstable environment.'
Lost my job last month and my child support is killing me right now. I've got severance for maybe 2 more months then I'm scrambling. Do I need to file for modification right away o
She's 12 and just told her mom she wants to stop coming every other week. Says my apartment is too small and I don't have her own room. It wrecked me hearing this. I have her on my
Took us 8 months and way too much legal back and forth but we finally signed something. 50/50 with alternating weeks and clear summer break schedules. My lawyer said putting it in
This is the third time in two months she's asked to swap weekends with zero notice. I get that life happens but I make plans with the kids, I take time off work sometimes, and I fe
Been dating someone for 6 months now and it's getting serious. I have the boys Thursday through Sunday. My ex is already being weird about it even though I'm not bringing her aroun
My wife and I decided to separate last week and we're trying to figure out the best way to tell our kids. They're 7 and 10. We want to keep it simple, make sure they know it's not
This is the third time in two months she's asked to swap weekends at the last minute. I get that life happens but I have plans with the kids that I've already told them about. How