Leading by example with my son
Caught myself about to snap at my wife over something stupid yesterday and my 7yo was watching. I took a breath, excused myself for a second, and came back and handled it like a gr
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Traditional values, southern gentleman leadership, raising respectful kids, teaching honor and integrity.
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Caught myself about to snap at my wife over something stupid yesterday and my 7yo was watching. I took a breath, excused myself for a second, and came back and handled it like a gr
In this texting world I'm making sure my boys understand there's something about a handwritten note. When Grandma sends a gift, we sit down and write her a proper thank you. Takes
After 15 years, I finally understand what the old man was trying to teach me. He never raised his voice, never made excuses, just did what he said he would do. Every single time. L
Took the family out to a decent restaurant last night and I was literally the only dad in a blazer and tie. Everyone else showing up in gym shorts and hoodies. I get comfort but co
Been working with my 7 year old on his handshake. Firm grip, look em in the eye, say their name back to them. Had him meet my business partner last week and the guy actually commen
My kids thought it was hilarious when I stood up when my wife came back to the dinner table the other night. When did basic courtesy become weird? My dad always stood for my mom an
Got tired of seeing every man at church and around town dressed like they just rolled out of bed. Started dressing up a bit more - button up shirts, actual pants, leather shoes ins
My boy is 8 and I realized he doesn't know how to give a firm handshake. We worked on it this week - firm grip, eye contact, say your name clear and confident. It's a small thing b
My 8 year old had his first real handshake with my business partner last week and I have to say I was proud. Before we went to the meeting I sat him down and showed him how to grip
I'm getting frustrated with how many guys around me talk a big game about being a good father and provider but don't actually put in the work. My grandfather worked two jobs, came
Took my kids to a nice dinner last month and was honestly shocked at how other children behaved. No please or thank you, elbows on the table, talking with their mouths full. My wif
Being strong doesn't mean you never show emotion or that you handle everything alone. Real strength is being steady for your family, admitting when you're wrong, and having the bac
Had a talk with my 12 year old about respect, honoring your word, and standing up for what's right even when it's hard. He got embarrassed but I think it stuck. My dad did the same
Sometimes I wonder if I'm old fashioned insisting my kids keep their promises, own their mistakes, and treat others with dignity. The culture seems to say it doesn't matter anymore
Been working with my 8 year old on his handshake. Firm grip, look em in the eye, say their name back to them. My old man did this with me and it stuck. Had him meet my business par
Sitting here at my kids' school concert and remembered my father never missed a single one of ours. He worked construction, exhausted most days, but he was always there. Now I make
My wife thinks I'm crazy for insisting we send handwritten thank you notes after every gift or dinner invitation. But my grandfather always said a typed email is lazy and disrespec
Sometimes you have to respectfully disagree with your spouse but do it with honor. Had to tell my wife yesterday that I didn't agree with how she was handling something with the ki
I see a lot of men these days who've checked out of the leadership role in their homes. But that's not what we do. Being the leader doesn't mean being a dictator. It means being th
My grandfather taught me when I was young and I'm making sure my sons know how to do it right. Firm grip, look them in the eye, and mean it. Had them practice with me and then we d